How Often Should You Visit Someone in Memory Care?

There’s no single rule for how often to visit someone in memory care. The right frequency depends on your loved one’s needs, your schedule, and their adjustment to the community.
In the early weeks, visiting more frequently can provide comfort and reassurance as your loved one settles in. Over time, consistent visits—whether weekly or biweekly—help maintain strong emotional connections. What matters most is reliability, as predictable visits give seniors a sense of security.
Quality is just as important as quantity. Short, meaningful visits can be more beneficial than long, infrequent ones. Participating in activities, sharing meals, or simply talking can make each visit special.
At The Cottage at Litchfield Hills, families are encouraged to stay actively involved, supporting both emotional well-being and a smooth transition into memory care.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can visiting too often overwhelm someone in memory care?
Yes, visits should be balanced and tailored to your loved one’s comfort level.
What if I live far away?
Phone calls, video chats, and mailed letters help maintain connection.
Should visits be scheduled or spontaneous?
Scheduled visits provide structure, but occasional surprises can bring joy.
Sources:
- https://alzheimer.ca/en/help-support/i-have-friend-or-family-member-who-lives-dementia/making-meaningful-visits
- https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/get-support/help-dementia-care/care-homes-who-decides-when